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Book Review: Do More Better

03 Friday Mar 2017

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Do More Better by Tim Challies

So maybe I’ll just use my blog as a place for my book reviews.  You’ll get very… personal and somewhat self-absorbed reviews.  My reviews are written for personal edification, but maybe they can help someone else as well?

I’ve go to say, this is an excellent book. It’s my second time reading through it. And while I have some vague systems in place still from the last time I read the book, I am far from being an expert in productivity. So far from it, that I had to read it again.

I have a new job, and unlike working nights where my responsibilities were to just do whatever I needed to as it happened, my new job is quite different. My new job requires balancing multiple projects, training everyone department-wide, updating and writing new policies & procedures, being the driving force in an IV room remodel, and… well, this new job requires a very different set of skills. I am excellent at being a night shift pharmacist, but after a month of being responsible for our sterile compounding, I’ve found myself feeling a bit overwhelmed.

Enter this book. As I mentioned, I’ve read it before and found it to be very useful. The basic premises of it are to define your roles in life so that you may know what it is you should be doing. From there, he helps to further breakdown and define your roles, and then why are you doing them? The answer is ultimately for the glory of God, but why do I do what I do? Why do you do what you do?  The way he has you break down your various roles (mine are Personal, Family, Church, Pharmacy, and Social), and then duties within those roles.

From there, he helps set up a task manager (focusing on Todoist), a calendar (focusing on Google Calendar), and information management (focusing on Evernote). I chose Todist, Google Calendar, and Microsoft OneNote. His descriptions are specific for each of the programs, but I had no problem setting up OneNote in place of Evernote; I’m sure you can use the task manager and calendar of your choice.

Overall, this is a very short book. It give stringent examples, but is open to say that they are just examples.  He makes it clear that setting up your own system should be adapted to fit your own roles and responsibilities, and should not be set in concrete.  Everything he suggests comes across as a suggestion, and adaptable over time.  I easily got the book read and everything set up in a single day (granted in a single day off from work with the kids in school).  Tim Challies has a way with taking information and putting it into understandable and concise words. It’s a short book at only 120 pages, but the amount of useful processes it contains, are more useful than most any book I’ve ever read on productivity.

My brain is already relaxing from having an external system for capturing and processing information.

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Book Review: God’s Battle Plan for the Mind

25 Saturday Feb 2017

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God’s Battle Plan for the Mind: The Puritan Practice of Biblical Meditation, by David W. Saxton 

img_0193Might as well do a book review, right?  I mean, I do book reviews on everything I read for my own personal edification and memory.  I’ll share some of them.

Overall, God’s Battle Plan for the Mind a good book. He begins by explaining not just the importance of Christian meditation, but bolsters his argument by diving into a multitude of Puritan authors and preachers and their insistence of it’s importance.  Christian meditation is a practice that is nearly lost in modern times.  Christian meditation is such a lost part of the Christian walk, that the Christian who presents himself as “one who meditates” is generally regarded as mixing Buddhism into their walk.  Yet Christian meditation is nothing like Buddhist practices.  Christian meditation does not turn inward to watch breath, or a repeated mantra, but upon something outside himself-specifically the nature and character of God.

He does a good job of going through quite a few Puritan authors, looking at what they called Christians of their time to do. And to be honest, it’s really a completely different concept of a Christian walk than we have today.

We are distracted today by cell phones and Facebook and any TV show in all of history in multiple languages all within a couple of clicks from right where we are. On the couch, in bed, at the airport, at work. So we have all of that distraction, and we fail to focus on the thing-the One Thing- that will make all the difference in our lives, which is Christ.

The book is useful, in that it identifies the problem (Christians no longer meditate), and then provides a plan to teach modern distracted Christians how to move forward and recover this practice.  He provides some definitions of what Biblical Meditation is and is not, as well as the difference between occasional and deliberate meditation.

One of the most helpful chapters is regarding what it is we can meditate on.  Not just random bible verses but bible verses, nature, and the character and nature of God.

And then of course, the benefits of meditation.  The stakes of meditation are high, and the Christian who does not meditate, is likely not a Christian at all.  This is simply a logical conclusion-if we never consider who God is, what he does for us, the way He acts… well, what are we meditating on?  The best beers?  The best tv show?  How to get more money? These are things that may be worthy to consider, but if we don’t focus our thoughts on the most powerful being in the universe, what does that say about how we consider ourselves?

Overall, I have to say, this was a good book. Helpful. I can see much more clearly how empty we are without Biblical Christian meditation, and why it would be better to put down some distractions and look to Him instead.

Star Rating: ☆☆☆☆

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I Have a Blog?

10 Tuesday Jan 2017

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So… Long time no post. I’m going to just post a short little blurb primarily as an experiment. As I’ve mentioned in the past, I write almost every day, but I rarely share anything. I’ve been thinking about posting more often; it wouldn’t be that hard to do. 

I use Day One for journaling.  It’s my favorite app for doing this, since it records location and weather as you go. I love being able to look at map and see all the places I’ve been, and it wouldn’t be that hard to just cut and paste. 

Anyway, I just thought I’d post this morning to see if I remembered my password, if the blog itself actually worked, and so just wee what happened. New things are afoot in our household, which are exciting and will change our dynamics significantly. 

So maybe I’ll see you again soon?  Here’s a picture of Daisy to make you day a little better in any case. 

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Pray for Your Daughters

31 Tuesday Dec 2013

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31 Days of Prayer, Family, Fathers, Mike Leake, Pray for Your Daughter, Prayer, Resolutions, Tim Challies

Well, 2013 is wrapping up.  You can see how my New Year’s Resolution to blog every day went.  Two whopping posts.  But they were pretty nice, don’t you think?  I just got my 2013 blogging statistics, and despite my lack of new content, I still had 450 visitors from 26 countries.  It still boggles my mind that I can post here from my house and have someone read it on the other side of the planet within a few seconds.  Hopefully some of the things I posted have helped.  A lot of it is just fun things about our family.

Honestly, I don’t do new years resolutions.  I realized long ago I don’t have the capacity to become a new & improved person every year.  I normally try to avoid doing anything new on January 1st just because I don’t want people to think I’ve been sucked into doing some sort of resolution.

That being said, I want to do something new and special on January 1st, and I want to invite you to join with me.  This suggestion came to me from Mike Leake’s Borrowed Light blog.  I try not to send people to blogs I haven’t read (I don’t want to mislead anyone theologically if I can help it), but I got this from Tim Challies’ blog, and a post from today includes links to a Desiring God post that I just read.  Also, I am impressed by his “Dead Theologian 1 Year Challenge” post.  So at this point I trust it.

He has done a 31 day Pray for Your Wife and a 31 day Pray for Your Husband challenge in the past.  And for January 1st he will be leading a 31 Day Pray for Your Daughter Challenge.

I know that I need to be challenged to do this.  I pray too little too often, and with as many problems as we have with our One child, I tend to spend less time praying for my other children. I intend to do this, and I want you to help me be accountable.  Please comment with your thoughts and check in with me from time to time.  I plan to update later in January with how things are going.

There is a Facebook group you can join here, and if you aren’t on Facebook you can visit his blog for daily updates.  I encourage you to join in, even if you don’t have any daughters.  Pray for your daughter-in-law or a niece or a spouse.  If nothing else it will challenge you to specifically set time aside for prayer each and every day.  Nothing bad can come of that.

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Trip to the Museum

11 Thursday Jul 2013

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I write to myself quite a bit. I’m on page 3429 of my journal, and I have a journal blog that I just keep for myself, or anyone I give a password to. Which so far is nobody. Also, it’s for the NSA to know what an upstanding citizen I am. So I realized that this blog entry from my deep dark secret blog would probably be enjoyed by some family and some friends. Here you go.

Mostly I Want to write about our trip to St. Louis last Friday (note, I wrote this 6/26/13). I’m doing it on My new Galaxy Note 8 tablet. It’s recognizing my handwriting, and converting it to text. It’s pretty accurate, but is very annoying to try to correct typos. Also, there are typos in my handwriting now. But it’s still pretty cool.
So last Friday, we headed to St. Louis on a family trip. It made me desire my trip with Shannon at the end of July all the more. I like St. Louis, and miss living there…Sometimes. But I do really like living in Cape. We couldn’t live in a house like we do if we were still in St. Louis, that’s for sure.
We loaded up the car and left about 10 am. We got to the City Museum about noon. Shannon had never been there before, and was immediately overwhelmed. We started off by heading to the 1st floor…I don’t even know what you call it. World’s most elaborate jungle gym? The big whale? I don’t know, but it is elaborate. Lots of climbing and crawling. Easy to lose a child. We didn’t. The whole day. We didn’t lose a child. We did misplace Sam for a short time, but found him pretty quickly, but that was toward the end of the day. We started with the whale and the “Enchanted Caves.”
From there we had some lunch. We ate there at the museum. Very tasty food. The boys had grilled cheese made with pretzel bread. lt was so good, but of course they wouldn’t eat it. Crazy. Erin had a sandwich, and Shannon and I had a very tasty pizza.
After that, we roamed. Enjoyed the skateless skate park, the shoelace factory, the model train set (that has a tornado!!!!) (Super psychy!), and the Beatnik cafe.
We eventually made our way up to the roof, and spent quite a while up there. There’s a big slide that Sam & Ben went down several times, and then there’s the Ferris wheel. But unfortunately, it was very hot. So, while it was an enjoyable experience, while the views of downtown were great, we were sweating like nothing else. So we closed our time on the roof with ice water, Gatorade, and (for the kids) ice cream.
From there, the boys REALLY wanted to go play on the airplane, so I took them out and we climbed up into the airplane. To get to the airplane, you must climb up through towers and steel wire tunnels, and go up 3 or 4 Stories up.
And then, the boys played in the ball pit.
We closed with a trip to the gift shop where Erin got a shirt, Sam got Sea Monkeys, Nate got a school bus, Ben got a tape measure, Shannon got a purse, and I got Magic Rocks.
We ate supper at Chevy’s in Des Peres.
We made it home about 8:30 in the evening. Overall, it was a great day.

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